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The Vulcan Salute — Its Time Has Come


“Live long and prosper.”

“Logic is the beginning of wisdom,
not the end.”
— Mr. Spock

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The Vulcan Salute















During the days when “Star Trek” was a popular TV show, Mr. Spock (Lieutenant Commander and Science Office of the Starship Enterprise) taught us the Vulcan Salute.  In language, it translates to “Live long and prosper.”  It was a friendly, respectful greeting that those of us from the 21st century might use in a way similar to our human handshake.  So, given today’s reluctance to shake hands for sanitary reasons, it might be used to become a germ-resistant cultural replacement for that time-honored gesture.

Considering the source, Mr. Spock (played by actor Leonard Nimoy) had a dramatic backstory — he had a mixed Human-Vulcan heritage, he taught a number of respectful behaviors to his human colleagues.  The character’s father was named Sarek, from the planet Vulcan, and his mother was Amanda Grayson, a human.  Due to his mixed-race heritage, the young Spock character had a difficult childhood, bullied on his home planet by full-blooded Vulcan children who made fun of the human emotions he inherited from his human mother.  He grew up alongside his half-brother, Sybok, who was eventually cast out for rejecting logic.  Although Spock was accepted in the Vulcan Science Academy, he did not enter the academy because they would never fully accept someone who was only half Vulcan.  Instead, he succeeded in entering Starfleet, while spending the next 18 years estrange from his Vulcan relatives.

The evolution of the character was interesting in that the network wasn’t pleased with the mixed-race feature of the character and often airbrushed out the pointed ears of the character in promotional photos.  After the first season, a rift grew between the show’s creator, Gene Roddenberry, and Nimoy because the writing of the character deteriorated into brief expressions of “fascinating” and “logical”; and more complex interactions of the character with other characters, focusing on his unique racial heritage, were rejected by the network.  However, the Vulcan Salute in today’s environment has a number of useful qualities to offer to us 21st-century humans.

Many aspects of Spock’s character endured in popular culture and the boundary between the character and the actor was eventually blurred and then erased.  The character was adopted as an informal mascot by NASA and was incorporated into a number of literary successes by authors like Isaac Asimov.  An asteroid was named Mr. Spock in 1971 and the character, further promoted by Mr. Nimoy, became an inspiration to a number of scientists and engineers along with a number of more recent honors:

  • In 2004, Spock was ranked number 21 in Bravo’s list of The 100 Greatest TV Characters. According to Wlliam Shatner, the other star of the series, “much of the acting praise and media interest in the show went to Nimoy.”
    •  In 2008, Unified Gamers Online Inc. (UGO) named Spock one of the 50 greatest TV characters for both the original series and subsequent movie appearances.
    •  In 2012, Imagine Games Network (IGN) ranked the character Spock as the second top character of the Star Trek universe, with Kirk in the top spot.
    •  In 2016, Adam Nimoy released his very popular documentary film For the Love of Spock, about his father and his iconic character.
    •  Spock (Nimoy) has been honored by a multitude of film and television institutions for his dominant role among the characters of the Star Trek franchise over fifty years, from the original pilot in 1964 to his final film performance in 2013.
    •  After the death of Leonard Nimoy in 2015, there has been an increase in the practice of altering the portrait of Canada’s seventh prime minister, Wilfrid Laurier, on Canada’s five-dollar note to look like Spock.

For today, if we all begin promoting the Vulcan Salute as the clinically safe and respectful greeting to replace the handshake, it may actually have a positive impact on reducing the spread of the coronavirus here in the twenty-first century.

Why don’t we give it a try?  (Can you do it?)

Finally, at this difficult time in our human history, I am reminded of some words — once used in a movie but originally attributed to John Lennon.  He said:

“Everything will turn out alright in the end.
If it is not alright, it is not yet the end.”


Beautiful Words — A Challenge


“To a first approximation,
words mean what they say.


AND how they make you feel.”
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Recently, a ‘by-line’ in the San Francisco Chronicle got my attention.  What caught my eye was not the title, but the author’s name — Nick Hoppe.  Frankly, I had not heard of “Nick” Hoppe, but his last name, “Hoppe,” is a name that had been important to me for half a century. 
Art Hoppe, who turns out to be Nick’s dad, was a columnist at the Chronicle from 1960 until his death in 2000.  The column was called “Our Man Hoppe” and later “The Innocent Bystander,” at its peak syndicated by over 100 newspapers nationwide.  His satirical column covered local and national politics and included essays, feature columns, and one-act scenes with an ongoing cast of characters like Private Oliver Drab, Joe Sikspak, Homer T. Pettibone, and others. 

Art Hoppe was my hero.  I read his five-day-a-week column starting in the 7th grade and, when I determined that I wanted to be a writer, he was my inspiration.   Much of what I have done on is inspired by him.  One in particular is a one-act play I posted on ConVivio in 2011 in which I recreated two characters he featured often over the years — Gabriel and The Landlord — my version is called  “Some Explaining To Do” (click here if you’d like to read it). 

–> –> –>–> But I digress …  all of that explains what attracted me to Nick Hoppe’s column earlier this month called, “Words That Just Feel Good On the Tongue.”  His goals were to identify ten words that, according to him, were the ten most beautiful words in the English language and explain why they were beautiful TO HIM.  I thought that was an intriguing idea.  When I read his column (and his list), I decided that many of his choices were NOT among those I would choose (e.g., his #1 choice was “knucklehead”).  BUT, I quickly realized that was his point: that I should identify words that I thought were beautiful and defend what made them important TO ME

So, I Made a List

I tried to create a list and a brief defense of each word’s presence on my list.  I decided a word earned the right to be included with a combination of the sound of the word and its meaning — the composite of how that word makes me feel.  It was sorta fun, but as with most lists of “favorites,” the challenge is to decide what must be excluded.  Turns out, I just plain failed to limit my list to ten, as Nick Hoppe had done (so, sue me).  Below is the result:
A. My list of the top-ten most beautiful words in American English (according to me)
B. My list of the second-ten most beautiful words in American English
C. A list of beautiful words I’ve stumbled across in other languages that SHOULD be in American English, but we don’t seem to have an equivalent word.

Observation: few one-syllable words made the list.  Following the Italian pattern, d’yathink words with multiple pronounced vowels sound more melodious, and generate stronger feelings?

A CHALLENGE —> Since you will inevitably disagree with some of my choices, (I can hear you now: “How could you possibly include THAT word?”), I INVITE YOU to make our own list(s) and defend your choices.  If you send me a list (or even just suggest a word or two), I will publish them here, if you like (with or without your name, as you choose). 

My Top Ten Most Beautiful Words in American English, and why they are beautiful (listed here alphabetically)

1. Becoming — this word (the title of Michelle Obama’s wonderful book) sets aside the notion that we must end up somewhere “final” in this life.  It suggests that we can always be more.

2. Grace — I admire this word with its three meanings: for many, a spiritual condition (“a state of grace”) received as an unearned divine gift; it is also a description of the physical elegance of artistic movement (as in a graceful dancer); but also, as a verb, to confer dignity or honor to a place or event.  (“I do not understand the mystery of grace only that it meets us where we are but does not leave us where it found us.” — Anne Lamott )

3. Love — the starting point and sustenance of everything good; either with a specific target or a broad, generalized intent toward all of life.  It comes to us free and is re-distributed free.

4. Kindness — the quality of being friendly, generous, considerate, without expecting a reward.

5. Serendipity — occurrence of happy or beneficial events apparently by chance (“Hitting the center of a target you didn’t know you were aiming at.” — Bujold

6. Simplicity — uncomplicated, easy to understand effortlessly, uncluttered.
Everything should he made as simple as possible, but not simpler.” — Einstein
Simplicity, simplicity, simplicity.” — H.D Thoreau (essential ingredient of a good life)

7. Storytelling  –>–> One of my favorite words. 
Storytelling reveals meaning without committing the error of defining it.” — Hannah Arendt
Stories are the common currency of humanity” — Tahir Shah (Arabian Nights)
“The human species thinks in metaphors and learns through stories.” — Mary Bateson
Reality can be beaten with enough imagination.” — Mark Twain

8. Welcome — an invitation bestowed on another person that says: “You belong here. Come in.”

9. Wonderful — inspiring delight, worthy of admiration, stimulating imagination (i.e., wonder)

10. Yosemite (Yohhe’meti) — name of the tribe that occupied what is now the Yosemite Valley, named by the surrounding, more peaceful Miwok tribes (literal translation: “Those who kill”).  
That tribe called themselves the Ahwahneechee and named “their” valley “Ahwahnee.” The Miwok translation for “Ahwahnee” meant simply “people.  Archaeological evidence of the Ahwahnechee and the name date back about 800 years. Early recorded contact with European settlers was about 1850 during the Gold Rush.  The name “Yosemite” stuck after being named that by 18th-century European settlers.  –> –>My love of this word does not stem from its troubled linguistic history but from our own experience with this beautiful, inspiring valley over our lifetime AND the inspiring sound of the word. 

My Second Ten Most Beautiful Words in American English

11. Eloquence — fluent or persuasive speaking or writing. à And I enjoy the sound of this word.
You must speak straight so that your words may go as sunlight straight into our hearts.” — Cochise
Eloquence is painted thought.” — Blaise Pascal

12. Ephemeral — lasting for a short time, fleeting.  “She liked the way the word sounded in her head.  ‘I am ephemeral.’ It made her feel like something passing and precious.” — Pamela Todd

13. Exhilaration — synonyms: elation, euphoria, joy, ecstasy, exultation, rhapsody.
“Exhilaration is that feeling you get just after a great idea hits you and just before you realize what’s wrong with it.“ — Rex Harrison.   “We can take some gratification at having come so far in just a few thousand years as language users but it should be a deeper exhilaration to recognize that we have such a distance to go.” – Lewis Thomas

14. Felicity — joy, delight, cheerfulness, ability to express one’s thoughts effectively.
“To strive with difficulties and to conquer them is the highest human felicity.” Samuel Johnson
“There is more felicity on the far side of baldness than young men can possible imagine.” — LP Smith

15. Forbearance — patient self-control, restraint, tolerance. 
Common man’s patience will bring him more happiness than common man’s power.” Amit Kalantri
Leadership was not an act of bravery but rather forbearance and the strength to move forward with humility in the belief of what is right.” Sortoosh Shahrivar

16. Mellifluous — voice or words sweet or musical, pleasant to hear.  “In my dreams, I heard your mellifluous voice.  It slowly woke me up from a deep sleep so that I could enjoy the magnificence of life.” — Debasish Mridha

17. Propinquity — proximity à I just like the sound of it better than mere “proximity.”
“Keep characters in propinquity long enough and a story will always develop a plot.” — Keith Miller

18. Quintessential — classic, representing the most perfect example of a quality. 
A quintessential experience is to hike up the John Muir Trail  behind the Mist Trail to the top of Vernal Falls and trudge through the snow to the rock from which you can look down at Vernal and up at Nevada Falls — and, if you are not eaten by bears in the dark on the way down, to have a glass of Rombauer Chardonnay in the Ahwahnee dining room with a plate of scallops.” — PapDan

19. Resplendent — attractive and impressive through being richly colorful or sumptuous.

20. Succulent  — OK so I just like the Hemingway quote à“As I ate the oysters with their strong taste of the sea and their faint metallic taste that the cold white wine washed away leaving only the sea taste and the succulent texture, and as I drank their cold liquid from each shell and washed it down with the crisp taste of the wine, I lost the empty feeling and began to be happy and to make plans.” — Ernest Hemingway

Ten Words with no English Equivalents, that the English Language Needs

–> –> Some emphasis here on the sound of these words, as well as their meaning.

1. Flaneur (French) — a person at leisure, deliberately aimless, wandering streets, soaking in a city, a neighborhood, or, heck, a forest.

2. Magari (Italian) — “If only”; use this for beautiful experiences that you wish for, longingly.

3. Metanoia (Greek) — the journey of changing one’s mind, heart, self, or way of life.

4. Mudita (Sanskrit) — taking delight in the happiness of others.

5. Namaste (Sanskrit) — traditional Hindi greeting or gesture of respect, (“I bow to the divine in you”) by holding the palms together before the face or chest and bowing.  The gesture is called a “Namaskar”; the word used is “Namaste.” àà Gretta contributed this one to the list.

6. Passeggiata (Italian) — a slow, late afternoon or evening stroll, (perhaps associated with gelato).  This is a close relative of the French word “Flaneurie, which is what a Flaneur does.

7. Rocambolesco (Italian) — a person who is daring, adventurous, and incredible — or an experience that can be described with one of those adjectives.

8. Sprezzatura (Italian) — to do something flawlessly, effortlessly, splendidly.

9. Tickety-boo (British) — Something satisfactory and in good order (but not extraordinary); sometimes shortened to “twee.” Some believe it derives from Hindi “ṭhīk hai, bābū,” meaning “it’s alright, sir” — and is therefore a linguistic theft.

10. Tsundoku (Japanese) — the act of buying books, keeping them, and not reading them

Afterthoughts — A few of you sent in your own lists of carefully-selected words as comments on ConVivio.  I have taken three of those lists from “Comments” and added them below — they are from
1. Our own famous “Hat Lady”
2. Our guest poet Lauren de Vore
3. Overall wise-word-man Stephen Faletti. 
I think you will enjoy their contributions. 

Nick Hoppe’s recent column (with his top-ten list) can be found here:

If you’re interested in knowing more about my earliest writing hero, Art Hoppe, his obituary in the Chronicle from February 3, 2000, paints a good picture.  It can be found here:

“The Hat Lady‘s” Lists of Favorite Words

Our famous “Hat Lady” offered two lists and a bit of a “defense” for including each word — in some cases identifying a word that needs to be used more often in our public discourse and placing that word within her own personal philosophy.  Shortly after her 90th birthday, she says: “I just have one defense of my lists.  The words are good. They lend variety to expression, a precision, or shading.  These are all things that the English language does well.” 

My First List

  1. Story — Narrative, true or fictitious, designed to interest or muse the hearer of the reader.  Everyone has a story to tell, if only one would stop to listen or read.
  2. Equanimity — Easiness of mind or temper; calmness, composure.  Disturbing one’s equanimity these days is easily done.  One must reach for it again and again.
  3. Façade — Face or front of a structure; an outward appearance maintained to conceal a less pleasant disposition. It’s always rewarding to present a sunny demeanor.
  4. Embrace — to take on or receive an idea gladly; to avail oneself of opportunity; to include.  To embrace the concept of respect for all does not appear to be publicly appealing at this time. 
  5. Consequential — the nature of consequence following an effort or result.  Consequential implications of one’s actions are mostly ignored these days.  What a shame!
  6. Accommodate — to do a kindness of a favor for friends, family, or even a stranger.  How could one not accommodate someone in need, whatever the need might be.
  7. Meander — to proceed by a winding course; to wander aimlessly.  It does one good to meander through fields in Spring. It is also good to let thoughts meander once in a while.
  8. Curmudgeon — irascible; churlish; sometimes lovable.  A little patience with this recently elder person can be fun.
  9. Thanksgiving (Day) — The act of giving thanks on a special day.  There is much joy in assembling loved ones and making preparations for a festive day of thanks. 
  10. Affirm — to state positively as true; assuring that one’s belief and/or loyalty can be accepted without doubt.

My Second List

  1. Ingenious — showing cleverness; inventiveness; free from reserve; frankly candid.
  2. Conundrum — Anything which puzzles; not easily resolved. The world itself is a puzzle.  Its origin is not known.
  3. Sublime — Inspiring the mind with some sense of grandness; awe-inspiring.
  4. Limpid — transparent; crystal clear.
  5. Insight — a penetrating mental view; sudden grappling with a solution.
  6. Probity — integrity; up-rightness; honesty.
  7. Optimist — a person given to looking on the bright side; a belief in goodness.
  8. Gingerly — with caution or extreme care; mincingly; daintily.
  9. Imbroglio — a perplexing situation; complicated or difficult to resolve; a laughable mix-up (it’s Italian).
  10. Fragrance — having a pleasant odor, as in the fragrance of Spring; ripening fruit; homemade bread.

Lauren de Vore’s Words that “roll off the tongue and into the ear most pleasantly.”

On February 28, 2019, Lauren wrote: “These are not necessarily my “favorite” words; those words have all sorts of connotations and associations, making it difficult to judge them solely on the basis of their sound. The ten words offered below (in no particular order) are those that, to my mind, roll off the tongue and into the ear most pleasantly.” 

  1. Amble: slow and easy, it moseys through the mouth and out into the world.
  2. Cherish: there’s something precious and precise about “cherish”; doesn’t hurt that there’s a rather nice song with this title.
  3. Bell: the initial “b” is the clapper that strikes the lips and opens up the mouth for a big, round, resonant “ell.”
  4. Eiderdown: just sigh into the word and feel it settle softly over you.
  5. Nosh: voiced directly behind the nose, nosh is a silly word but so much more satisfying than snack.
  6. Tourmaline: sparkles like crystalline but with more color and depth, just like the gem.
  7. Dreamy: flows with great mouthfeel, just like soft-serve ice cream but without the calories.
  8. Palisade: never mind the meaning, I just like the way it glides (glissades?) off the tongue.
  9. Velvet: I love the way the word sounds the way velvet feels, especially when you savor the “ell.”
  10. Golden: so rich and warm, if a sound could glow …

Stephen Faletti’s Words

On March 6, 2019, Stephen offered this list:

  1. AAUGH! — an exclamation used when characters in the Peanuts comic strip scream. When yelled, the characters are typically facing up with their mouths almost as big as their faces.
  2. AAARRRGGGHHH!!! — a longer exclamation related to AAUGH!
  3. Asymptote — a straight line such that the distance between some curve and the line approaches zero as the x or y coordinate tends to infinity (in analytic geometry). So the curve continually approaches but never quite touches the line (meets without touching). From the Greek root asymptotos meaning “not falling together.” See the classic curve y=1/x. For extra credit, see the hyperbola x^2-y^2=1.
  4. Spectacular — beautiful in a dramatic and eye-catching way. Use with the special intonation made famous by Huell Howser in the PBS television series “California’s Gold,” as in spec-TAC-ular. Try it out loud.
  5. Disgruntled — angry, dissatisfied, or discontented. You can hear the grumbling when you say the word. From an old verb gruntle meaning “to utter little grunts,” with the prefix “dis” used as an amplifier not an opposite (no one is ever gruntled).
  6. Homoscedasticity — same variance (in statistics). The situation in linear regression analysis where the variance (random noise) around the regression line is the same for all values of the variable x. So the data points in the scatter diagram are all roughly the same distance from the regression line. But who cares? Just enjoy pronouncing this 7-syllable word.
  7. Heteroscedasticity — different variance (complement to homoscedasticity). An 8-syllable word that has a delightful sing-song intonation.
  8. Old-School — characteristic or evocative of an earlier or original style, manner, or form. Use with appreciation or reverence, not as a pejorative.
  9. Emphatic — expressing something forcibly and clearly; showing or giving emphasis. This word sounds like its definition.
  10. Tort Litigation — I’m breaking the rules of the exercise here by using a phrase instead of a word. But you might enjoy the effect of saying these two words emphatically, out loud, and together as if they comprised a single word. Try it.

My 10 Words – Lewis Bell

Understanding – This is a big one, because it seems that when people reach a point of great authority they lose the ability to understand anything other than their own ego driven desires.  The world is full of misunderstanding now.  I don’t know if it is more or less than usual, but I only live in what is now.  All of it is hard to understand but every day I try to understand and do the right thing.

Satisfaction – My father once told me that, “A satisfied man is a happy man.”  He didn’t tell me much because he died when I was 13, but those words have always stuck with me.  I agree with him.  All you need is all you need.  You don’t have to have it all, just what it takes.

Delight – Those perfectly timed moments that bring glee, relish, excitement, thrill, happiness.  Babies, puppies and kittens are especially good at it.  It keeps you young❣️

Compassion – Caring for your fellow man and setting the good example for those that follow you to do the right thing.  Success does not always mean getting.  Giving can bring greater wealth.  When it is your turn, do not look the other way

Devotion – Belonging to and having someone belong to you builds amazing foundations and creates a steadfastness that can and will last for an eternity.

Laughter – This one tops the list – “Love, Live Laugh” is plastered all over my being.  “If you can’t laugh about it, it is not worth doing.” Don’t know who said that, but Milton Berle said, “Laughter is an instant vacation.” 

Faith – Not so much in a deity or an organized religion, but more so faith in myself – knowing that I can get the job done, knowing that I have what it takes, an inner strength, a positive sense of being.

Creativity – I thrive on creativity.  Most recently I have discovered hidden talent is graphic arts and in music.  Making something from nothing but yourself is so powerfully rewarding.

Awareness – Always being acutely aware of where I am and what is going on around me – not because of being afraid, but of being fearful that I will miss out on something in this amazing world in which we live.  I can’t tell you how many times I have asked someone, “Did you see that?”  And they answer, “No.” And I think, “Your loss!”  It doesn’t cost anything to pay attention. 

Individualism – I’ve always strived to be self-motivated, self-supporting, and not afraid of being different. I am my own person.  I have those that I love and those that I follow, but I am not into group pressures.  I like to make up my own mind.

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Chasing the Shade

Postcard_Shade_July2015I am sitting at my desk staring at the tip of my fountain pen, hoping for some inspiration; but the words are not coming — not an unfamiliar experience for me. Ideas, of course, come and go in various stages of completeness, sometimes stimulated by world events, other times from personal experience or reading, and most often from observing other people.

Among those ‘other people,’ I have had the privilege of being exposed to some terrific writers over the course of my lifelong education, people like Wilder and Poe, Hemingway and Fitzgerald, Steinbeck and Twain, Frost and DeVore. Some of them made a habit of offering advice to other writers. So, at times of ‘drought’ like these, I’ve dutifully looked to them for guidance.

Staring again at the tip of this fountain pen trying to write my own story, I find that those writers offer a wealth of advice that sometimes seems to be aimed directly at me. Hemingway, the writing teacher I will quote today, is particularly generous with what sounds at first like such simple advice. He compares himself to other writers to provide guidance on the use of language: “Poor Faulkner – does he really think big emotions come from big words? He thinks I don’t know the ten-dollar words. I know them, alright, but there are older and simpler and better words, and those are the ones I use.” That sounds reassuring: use simple words, tell simple stories about real people.

But then, sometimes he can also be a powerfully intimidating teacher of what it takes to be a writer. “All good books,” he wrote, “are alike in that they are truer than if they had really happened; and, after you are finished reading one, you will feel that all that happened to you and afterwards, it all belongs to you; the good and the bad, the ecstasy and the remorse and sorrow, the people and the places, and how the weather was. If you can get so that you can give that to people, then you are a writer.”

Oh. That’s what I have to do?!  Can I do that?   Seems like such a tall order!  At least I can emulate his occasional use of long sentences.

I think he tried to be comforting with simpler advice when he wrote: “The most essential gift for a good writer is a built-in, shock-proof shit detector. This is the writer’s radar and all the great writers have had it.” And then, he offers more comfort: “I write one page of masterpiece to ninety-one pages of shit. I try to put the shit in the wastebasket.”

And then, he provides specific guidance from his own process: “Write drunk. Edit sober.”

Having gotten the specific advice out of the way, I look for examples to imitate and I find one – simple instructions for improving one’s mood, again from Hemingway, no shit for the wastebasket, strung together into a single long sentence:

“As I ate the oysters with their strong taste of the sea and their faint metallic taste that the cold white wine washed away leaving only the sea taste and the succulent texture, and as I drank their cold liquid from each shell and washed it down with the crisp taste of the wine, I lost the empty feeling and began to be happy and to make plans.”

From the small and simple details of taste and texture can come powerful feelings that can make a difference. Hemingway sneaks up on you. I look up from his words and say to myself. “I could have written that.” But I stare at the fountain pen and acknowledge the equally simple truth: ”But I didn’t.”

Staring again at the tip of my fountain pen, my mind wanders from Hemingway’s sentence to two simpler, shorter, and more powerful sentences than anything I could have written. These came from two friends of mine, both of whom have been fighting cancer – one for a short time, one for a long time. Katie had shared her feelings in an email shortly after her diagnosis. She wrote about her attempt to bring back the comfort of the time before the cancer. She described an afternoon in the backyard with a task that seemed simple — walk out to the Adirondack chair and sit in the shade with a book and a glass of cold chardonnay. Seeking comfort in the backyard turned out to be a search for a respite from too much of even a good thing like sunshine. A few feet away a lemon tree was providing shade; so the next task was to seek the protection of the stationary tree from the glare of the sun.

As she positions the chair under the tree and gets comfortable in its shade, it didn’t take long to confront the illusion. The shade seemed stationary; and yet, in the words of Galileo (as an apology for having saved himself by denying the truth) “eppur si muoveand yet it moves.”

We always seem to seek that illusion of permanence, don’t we — that the sunshine or the shade, whichever we prefer at the moment, will stay put, right where we want it? After some experience, we know better, don’t we? Is it merely the subconscious hope that something comfortable, stable, and safe, can be captured and held close to us? Maybe we eventually learn that growing up is the act of admitting to ourselves, and accepting, that everything in the universe, everything in the world, everything in ourselves, is moving. After that ‘simple’ observation, we try to anticipate that motion and move the chair to the place where the shade will end up, and we experience the further truth that nothing really moves in a straight line.

Damn. It was looking simple there for a while.

And then, there’s my oldest friend Lew. We met in the dorm at Santa Clara University in 1968 and I have watched him fight cancer for years in one successful battle after another, and then again more recently, leading to a series of treatments that concluded just before flying off to Europe for our long-planned vacation to Italy and France. On the train in Italy, Lew, his wife Rita, and Gretta and I joked that Italian food and French wine were probably the most powerful weapons he could wield against the disease. It was a great trip: the sweetness of Varenna on Lake Como, the bright warm sunshine of the French Riviera, and the calm pastoral setting of the wine country of Provence – a series of ‘treatments’ as healing as anything one could imagine.

Now for the simple, powerful sentences I promised —

A few days after returning to California came the lab tests and an appointment with the doctor to learn how effective the treatments had been. And our phone rang. It was Lew with as simple and powerful a sentence as anything Hemingway might have written: “My PSA is zero and they can’t find cancer anywhere in my body.”

Back to Katie in the Adirondack chair, after getting test results from her doctor, it became simple once again. “There’s news,” she wrote, “I’m clean; I’m clean.”

And now, with all of us back in the shade once again, I’m ready to put the pen to the paper …


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Words Are Dropping Out of the Language like . . .

It doesn’t take a literary scholar to notice that the English language has changed a lot over its lifetime. The ‘Old English’ of the 11th century is quite unrecognizable to us moderns. It’s hard to believe it’s ‘English.’ (Click to listen to the first line of the Old English epic poem Beowulf).

By the time the language evolved to ‘Middle English’ through the 12th-15th centuries, it started to look and sound a bit more familiar to us; but it still had a decidedly foreign sound to our modern ears. (Click for a little Chaucer.) Eventually, the so-called ‘Chancery Standard’ of the 1470s led the way to the Elizabethan English we recognize in Shakespeare. (Romeo & Juliet at the balcony)

We tend to think of the 400 years from Shakespeare to John Lennon as a long stable period of standardization. However, as I near the end of my sixth decade speaking this language, I am noticing that many words and phrases that I grew up with have been dropping out of the language. Some have been replaced with new ones created with the help of the scientific and cultural innovation that has exploded during my lifetime. Others have just dropped off the wagon to be crushed under the wheels of 21st-century multimedia (ouch!). These changes in our language certainly demonstrate the forces that have shaped our language through its long and varied history. A few examples of verbal the casualties from my youth serve to illustrate —

Fender Skirt

Since our fascination with automobiles dominated popular American culture in the 1950s, the language reflected that reality. How many of you remember ‘fender skirts?’ These popular add-ons were a luxury item for several automobile models.

All of my dad’s cars had ‘curb feelers’ in the 1950s and 60s, and the sound they made scraping against the curb was the sound we all associated with the arrival of a car in front of our house. A familiar status symbol I associated with ‘cool’ was the ‘steering knob.’ Some called them ‘Necker’s knobs’ because they allowed a young man to steer with one hand while ‘necking’ (when’s the last time you heard that word) with the girl beside him. Fortunately, ‘steering knobs’ went out of favor for reasons illustrated by their more pejorative name: ‘suicide knobs.’ So, these words left the language as automobile fashion and technology left these devices behind.

Curb Feeler                                     Steering Knob

When are we going to stop referring to ’emergency brakes’ — perhaps when more of us realize that they were of little use in a real emergency and, as ‘parking brakes,’ their value is actually to prevent emergencies.  ‘Continental Kits’ were a symbol of faux luxury hanging off the back of a car that was otherwise not a Lincoln Continental.

Continental Kit

How many of you remember that headlight high-beams were activated with ‘dimmer switches’ located on the floor to the left of the clutch? (And how many of us are beginning to forget what a clutch does?) Did you have a car with a ‘spoiler’ in the 60s? How about glass packs? Again, these words are either gone or on their way out.

Our language has off-loaded a number of other words beyond the language of automobiles. When was ‘supper’ replaced by ‘dinner’ — perhaps it was about the time the verb ‘to sup’ was replaced with the verb ‘to dine?’ Do you remember when a ‘store-bought’ dress or ‘store-bought’ cookies were considered luxuries back when so many items of food and clothing were manufactured by moms? Today, nobody calls attention to the fact that anything is ‘store-bought.’ And I still remember how proud my parents were when they covered up their hardwood floors with new ‘wall-to-wall carpets,’ which were a status symbol in the 1950s. I find that especially fascinating as Gretta and I prepare to have our own carpets removed next week and replaced with hardwood floors. As we discuss that plan, I haven’t heard anyone use the term ‘wall-to-wall.’

I had a ‘percolator’ in my dormitory room in 1968. When was that last time you heard that word? By the time I graduated in 1972, I had all but heard the last of it. (More trivia: does anyone remember the name of the spokesman who starred in the Mr. Coffee commercials that ended the reign of percolators and introduced the term ‘coffee maker’ to the language?)  Similarly, my Dad had a ‘Hi-Fi’ that played all of his records when I was a kid. By the time I needed one of my own, the word ‘stereo’ had taken over. While the word ‘turntable’ seems to be surviving (at least as long as vinyl records remain collectibles), but how many people in our more recent generations remember the technological origin of the word ‘groovy’ — even if they still hear their elders use that silly word? Do you still use the word ‘album’ to refer to a recording with more than two songs on it?  Or do you use the word ‘LP?’  My Dad used to call them ’33s’ and ’78s.’ (I still have some of my old ’45s.’)  There is extra credit for anyone who can tell us what an EP was.  I bought one produced by the Beatles in 1964.

Did anyone notice when we stopped using the word ‘brassiere’ and the word ‘bra’ became the norm? Not long before that, I remember hearing my parents refer to underwear as ‘unmentionables’ in mixed company. ‘Pregnant’ was considered too graphic or clinical — certainly for TV.  Do you remember when the expression “in a family way’ was the proper euphemism? When was the last time you heard that expression?

Can you think of other words that have begun to drop out of our language? Are there sports terms that have disappeared from the lexicon?  (‘Basket catch?’, ‘pine tar?’)  Have we lost any movie vocabulary?  (Do people still go to see ‘flicks?”  Have you heard the word ‘Celluloid’ in the last decade or so?)  Words associated with politics?   Books?   Television?  (Do they still have ‘test patterns’ very late at night?)

Here’s a ‘lost-word’ trivia question: Can anyone explain the clever play on words — including a word we don’t use anymore — that John Lennon was using in the title of a book of nonsense stories and drawings he published in 1965 called A Spaniard in the Works? No fair looking it up [oh, go ahead, you won’t get it otherwise].

What other verbal casualties can you think of?

Ain’t Goin’ Down Easy

Of course, the rules of usage and grammar are the hardest to change.  For some reason, people get offended when other people begin neglecting or bending the rules of grammar or usage. Can you think of some examples of trends that are meeting resistance as our language attempts to change?  Send us a comment. Is your language changing? I, of course, am resisting it.